I hardly ever notice unpleasant character traits people have until they’re pointed out to me. Same with situations. However, I find that once negative things have been pointed out to me, I adopt those perceptions a little too easily, and sometimes forget about the other side (unless someone else points it back out to me.) I think I need to work on being less influence-able. Learn to fight for my own snap judgments a little harder, and question others a little more.